Monday, May 14, 2012

Well another week is in the books!



Sorry the blogging didn’t work the way I had hoped last week.  I will try to do better.  We are currently at Beaumont for IVIG treatments.

So here we go with a day-by-day blow.

Monday May 7th

Our 1st trip back to University of Michigan, I was worried about how Tracy would handle the ride to Ann Arbor.  She did so well I was jealous!  She slept almost the entire way. (A baby was just born; they play Brahms Lullaby when one is born)  We got there on time, waited the customary 30 minutes and then met with a Neuro-Oncologist for the next hour and half or so. 

He was really pleased, actually tickled with the progress that Trace has made.  To quote him, “I didn’t expect to see you sitting up and conversing with me!”  He ran her through a battery of tests in the office, all with smiles as he performed them.  He said that it is his belief that the paraneoplastic syndrome had mainly affected the synapses of Tracy’s nervous system and to some extent her cerebellum.  He was very encouraging saying that there appeared to be minimal effect to the cerebellum and that the synapses are regenerative.  Thank God!  He wants to see us back in 5 weeks.

Afterward we went back to the 5th floor, where Tracy had spent her entire four-month stay.  Everyone was so excited and encouraged by Trace’s progress.  Nurses where calling other nurses, Dr. Berg was calling other doctors, and Kristen, our Occupational Therapist was calling other therapists to come and see how well Tracy was.  It was quite the homecoming if you want to call it that.

It was quite overwhelming for Tracy, as she has no recollection of her stay at either U of M or Beaumont.  I believe this to be “a Blessing and a curse” as Monk would say.
A blessing because I don’t think I want her to know what she has been through and a curse because she has no concept of how bad she was or how far she has come.

We ate a late lunch at Angelo’s and picked up a sandwich at Maize and Blue for Drew, two of our favorite Ann Arbor haunts.

We returned to Heartland about 4:30.  It was quite the day for her as we left for Ann Arbor at 9:30.

Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday were quiet and back to normal, if that is what you want to call it.  Tracy has therapy 3 times a day, speech therapy for half an hour, physical therapy and occupational therapy both for 45 minutes and plays countless hours of solitaire on her phone.

Thursday we had a visit from Tracy’s PMR (physical medicine and rehabilitation) doctor who informed us that he was anticipating a discharge on May 19th!  I was shocked; Tracy is doing so well, but a week!  How was I supposed to get the house ready for her?  I didn’t even know what needed to be done to get it ready.

The Honor Student and Proud Parents

Friday was another story!  Drew had an Honors Ceremony at school at 7:30AM!!!  I was up before 6AM and in Tracy’s room by 7AM.  It was a quick trip to his school and we even got there early.  Drew was honored Suma Cum Laude for his grade point average (another baby is born) and also for a perfect score on his ACT for math.  I don’t think I have mentioned it before J, but we are so proud of him.

After the ceremony we went out to breakfast with Lisa Harrison and then home for a home evaluation with the therapists.  The evaluation was quite enlightening.  We need to install several grab bars in the bathrooms, a new handrail for the staircase, enlarge the step into the house from the garage, and I am sure I’m forgetting something else.  I then told the therapists that the PMR doctor had mentioned discharging Tracy on May 19th and they too were floored.  They agreed that she was making great progress but they couldn’t see her or me being ready for her to come home on the 19th.  They told me to meet with the case manager on Monday to discuss it further and that they would do the same.

While we were home Trace went upstairs easily, traversed the bedroom and bathroom with ease, but the return trip back down the stairs was quite frightening to her.

We returned back to Heartland around noon and had speech therapy later in the day.  I thought that I would get home early Friday night, but Tracy had a different thought, like stay up until 9:30PM!  I couldn’t believe it, she was up at 6AM too, had the same day I had, but had an hour nap after therapy.  I guess it was a power nap, because I didn’t have one and was exhausted.

When I got home I did some laundry and went to bed.

Saturday was fairly quiet.  I got up and played golf at 7:30AM and was in Tracy’s room about 11AM.  She remembered that I was playing golf, so she called Drew around 10:45 to find out where he was and what he was doing.

We spent the afternoon playing solitaire and then we all went to church Saturday evening.  It was so nice to be there, Tracy was so happy to be there, I don’t think she remembers going in April.  She sang, followed the sermon and bible scriptures.  It was so good to see her worshiping our Faithful God again.

Afterwards we went out to dinner and then back to Heartland and played more solitaire.  It turned out to be another late night with Tracy not going to sleep until around 9:30PM.

Mothers Day

Another milestone day as far as I am concerned.  Drew and I slept in, as we had not been sleeping so well.  I got up before him, and also went to bed before him, and went to be with Trace.  Drew showed up around 11AM with a Mothers Day Card and tickets to Earth, Wind and Fire, Tracy’s most favorite band.  We then went out to lunch for a Thai food and sushi buffet.  Tracy ate very well and so did I, but Drew took it to a whole new level, 26 pieces of sushi and some Thai food to boot!  Oh to be young again!

After lunch Drew went home to prepare for four Advanced Placement exams and Tracy and I went for a quick Sunday afternoon drive.  After returning to Heartland we started the solitaire games again.  We play so much solitaire that we even have Drew playing now.

It ended up being another late night for Tracy.

Monday May 14th

Tracy only had two therapies today, as one of the therapists was sick.  So it was a lighter than normal morning.  But it must have been exhausting as Tracy took a little nap and played more solitaire.  Two o’clock came and it was time to head to Beaumont as we started the 1st treatment of round 6 of her IVIG treatments.  As I wrote prior to this Tracy was napping again and slept for 2 ½ hours, so it will probably be another late night. 

Drew met us for dinner at the Alibi restaurant.  Tracy ate a plate of antipasto salad and a slice of pizza, that’s a lot for her!  So hopefully the full belly will compensate for the afternoon naps.

Prayer requests for this week would be:
1.     That the IVIG treatments would continue to help and go smoothly as they are every afternoon.
2.     Tracy cognitive state would improve.
3.     Drew would do well with his exams and sleep well too.
4.     I would find some time to get into the office.

That’s all I got for now.

God Bless and “Never Give Up… Never Ever Give Up!”
Rob

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